Weak, devoid of energy. The use appears to have originated in the U.S.

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1783.  Change the milk-and-water style of your last memorial; assume a bolder tone.—‘Journal of Congress’ (1823), iv. 209. (N.E.D.)

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1793.  [The federalists say] that our government is good for nothing,—is a milk and water thing which cannot support itself; we must knock it down, &c.—Tho. Jefferson, ‘The Anas,’ Aug. 6.

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1810.  Nor can any milk and water associate [judge] maintain his own dependance [sic].—Tho. Jefferson to Gov. Tyler, May 26.

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